CHILDHOOD SEXUAL ABUSE AND ME It's been a while since I have written anything, I guess I have been circling the drain for a while now.. I am, well have been depressed for a long while now but I am coping. So today I want to talk about Childhood Sexual Abuse (CSA for short). Honestly we live in a fucked up society where men and women prey on the innocence of our children. There is no age limit, these monster groom, threaten, coerce and/or force these children to perform sex acts on or with them. No child is safe because these monster can be anyone- a friend, a family member, a teacher, a pastor, a police office and the god damn list is endless. Some pretend that they care for the child, they give them gifts or take them out, they make that child feels special, loved and when he or she is comfortable with the perp that's when they strike. Others just for...
I, for one, am very passionate about this subject. It is a societal taboo and I do not believe that there is a need or a reason for it to be as it is a very serious matter that should be acknowledged. People need to understand that this can happen to anybody - young or old, black or white, rich or poor, gay or straight, female or male. Society needs to understand that this does happen to men, that men and boys do get raped and passing jugdement on these men solves nothing and only adds to theirs pain. Most boys or men who were raped tend to feel guilty and they often blame themselves. They ask themselves the same questions society often asks, How could I allow this to happen to me?, How could I him/them rape me?, I had an erection, does this means I enjoyed it ?, How can I defend my love ones when I could not defend myself ?, Does this means I am gay? And there are a lot of other questions that they asks themselves. These men did nothing wrong though, RAPE is not about sex or sexualit...